he (19nb) and i (18f) plan on having sex sometime in the near future, but the only thing is i’m a virgin, so he’ll be my first.

i feel like if he loves me, he won’t care that much, but what if i end up being TERRIBLE at sex?

  • kitnaht@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Only way you could be ‘terrible’ at sex is if you lay there like a dead body not participating in the act. You’ll be fine. Even with people who are ‘experienced’, it might take a few times before they’re comfortable enough to get lost in the act and understand what the other wants. Don’t be afraid to communicate what you like/don’t like.