• Rediphile@lemmy.ca
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    1 year ago

    I’m just saying good parents consider what is best for their children before having them. Having 6 when you can only reasonable support 3 is a ‘poor’ choice. Bad parents, on the other hand, have children to benefit themselves rather than the child.

    And anyway, statistically, lower income people have more children per person so no one is preventing poor people from having kids. I’m just questioning if that is what is best for those children, because I care about children’s suffering.

    • zbyte64@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      1 year ago

      In my experience, bad parents are those that think people act with a single motive - they tend to label kids as manipulative. People can have kids for a selfish reason and still put their interests first.

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      1 year ago

      As if it’s never the case that people have children in the expectation that their current financial situation won’t suddenly take a turn for the worse; as if what made perfect sense 10 years ago doesn’t make sense now when you have a 10-year-old kid to support.

      This idea of yours, that people should somehow be able to magically predict their financial future is pure bullshit.

    • Rooskie91@discuss.online
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      1 year ago

      Are you quoting facts from Idiocracy right now???

      https://www.businessinsider.com/pronatalism-elon-musk-population-tech-2022-11

      Are you sure that, since there are proportionally more poor people in the world, you aren’t just forming an availability bias?

      And besides that, poor people are more likely to get pregnant from rape without the ability to terminate the pregnancy. If that is not enough they also have less access to reproductive healthcare, reproductive education, abortions, birth control, and prophylactics.

      You’ve mentioned you’re a anti-capital, yet you see impoverished children as the fault of the parents who have them as opposed to the system that creates poverty in the first place. Capitalism demands cheap labor which means there are a ton of incentives built into it for procreation. Families don’t just choose to be poor.