Hiya girlies!

From tomorrow I am visiting my partner’s highly Catholic, Eastern European parents, so I will have to pretend to be a boy for like two weeks straight.

I already know I’m gonna feel disgusting when I get back.

So what things do you do to feel cute and feminine? I’d love to have some nice things to try when I am safe again.

Thank you <3

  • LegionEris [she/her]@feddit.nl
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    10 months ago

    Ngl I wouldn’t do that for a partner. Not a chance. I don’t have family in my life. No future partners of mine will meet my family. I don’t have to meet my partners’ families. I wouldn’t make myself miserable for two weeks minimum for any family. Not a chance I would do this. You say “when I am safe again.” I wouldn’t be with a partner who wanted me to feel like that for their comfort.

    • Amelia_@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      10 months ago

      In this regard I am fortunate in that I am still very early in my transition, my girl voice is very bad and embarrassing, I can’t really present feminine yet, I still have a very long way to go. So it’s uncomfy to pretend nothing is going on, but it’s not gonna really hurt me.

      I don’t think I’ll be visiting them again after this time though.