I have a terrible memory. Like you, I think there are so many great options but I just can’t get to a playful level making a choice when I don’t have it laid out. I decided to make a house menu with all our greatest hits. That really helped.

This can all get more complicated if the real problem is trying to do some psychic calculus to find each other’s preferred meal. I assume the reverse could be true if you and your partner’s needs are more self-oriented.