This topic came up at work and my coworkers of all genders had no answer. Never met or heard of one.

  • Tankiedesantski [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    9 months ago

    I think that for some people they are uncomfortable with the idea that someone may be sexualizing a part of their body that is generally considered non-sexual.

    During my university years there was a guy who was taking pictures of female students’ feet without their knowledge in the library. Since feet aren’t considered sexual, all the university could do was trespass him from the library. Had he been found with an SD card full of students’ breasts, asses, or crotches, he probably would have been expelled or worse.

    Like imagine if you found out that there was a group of people online who are aroused by the color blue so they share photos of women in blue dresses or driving blue cars or holding blue objects. You might be inclined to think twice about putting on your favorite blue sweater or whatever.

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      9 months ago

      I feel silly now, I’m never thinking about guys being such utter freaks all the time. Makes perfect sense to be weirded out given this behaviour. It simply did not occur to me because this type of behaviour does not factor into my assessment of kink. Why would it? Who would do this? Do not do this.

      Also I’m pretty sure there are groups of people online who do just that kind of stuff. Thinking back to a leddit thread about “unusual fetishes” and some guy said “women with clothes on”, to which another replied " going outside must be a blast for you".

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        9 months ago

        some guy said “women with clothes on”, to which another replied " going outside must be a blast for you".

        Good god, the coomers are evolving past their weaknesses. They can’t be defeated by going outside anymore!

        To be entirely fair to the foot fetishists, their reputation is being smeared by a small group of them that the whole can’t really police. Think of a counter factual of the library annecdote: if some guy was taking secret pics of students’ breasts, it would be seen as him being gross as opposed to people who like breasts being gross.

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              9 months ago

              There’s a lot of social significance around this kink which is deeply fascinating! I figured that there must be a good reason for people freaking out, but am socially illiterate and so did not know until told ✨