• -RJ-@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    Person 1: Is your friend Bob coming over? Person 2: No, they can’t make it, they’re busy

    One Bob, and we all know it’s one Bob, no confusion. Look for context. It’s not that hard.

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      Person 1: Are Bob and Janice coming over? Person 2: They can’t make it.

      Sometimes additional context is needed.

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        Your example is unambiguously plural. It’s not a good illustration of “they” creating confusion.

        It’s truly not a problem. I could contrive a reason to talk about a couple (they plural) and a nonbinary person (they singular) and end up with sentences where you don’t know which I’m referring to, but the exact same issue happens if I’m telling a story about two “he” or “she” subjects. And it’s solved in the same way.

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        Person 1: Are Bob and Janice coming over? Person 2: They can’t make it.

        Alternative:

        Person 1: Are Alice and Janice coming over? Person 2: She can’t make it.

        Alternative:

        Person 1: Are Alice and Janice coming over? Person 2: Alice can’t make it.

        This is far less difficult than you’re trying to force it to be.

        • CbtB@lemmynsfw.com
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          The original makes sense. Both your alternatives are weird. The first is completely strange the second one begs the question, what about Janice.

          What are you trying to express here?