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Cake day: June 10th, 2023

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  • To be perfectly frank, I think it’s weird to write so much about your personal life in a reply to a stranger on the internet. How am I supposed to respond to any of your personal details without risking you taking it personally? Are you looking for my approval of your rugged individualist lifestyle? For whatever it’s worth, it sounds very romantic and if I knew you in real life I’m sure I would be polite enough to keep whatever opinions I have about your vehicle to myself.

    So for many reasons, I need a truck. It is almost never loaded when I have to go into the city. It’s not lifted, I don’t have obnoxious wheels, but it’s a big truck (they don’t seem to make them any other way these days).

    I suspect we both agree that vehicle sizes have gotten out of control, especially with respect to pick up trucks. Would you have bought a smaller truck if it were available? Would you support governmental regulation to bring pick up trucks back in line with where they were 30 years ago?

    Now I have to also worry about people with attitudes like yours taking their misguided vigilante justice out on my vehicle because you’re not thinking beyond your nose? Do you really think that’s fair?

    When I think of “vigilante justice” I think of violence, so it seems a little disconnected with the reality of letting the air out of someone’s tires along with posting a note on their windscreen. I think the protestors would agree that ‘thinking beyond your nose’ is very important, and that individual choices can have collective impacts.


  • I feel this would go over differently in the land of “fuck around and find out”. You’d have bored old dudes with rifles setting up watches. And if when something did happen, public opinion is not going to be on the air-letters side.

    Bored old dudes with rifles watching over their parked vehicles in dense urban centers seems like a disproportionate response to having some tires deflated. I think your speculation about the public supporting someone being murdered over their participation in peaceful protest is pretty depressing. I hope you don’t actually think that.

    My insurance comes with road hazard that would cover this at no cost; and I’m a poor.

    This is a good point - I’m not very knowledgeable with respect to insurance, especially internationally. Thank you for your insight

    Go pop some private jet tires.

    I think this is something we can all get behind



  • The situation you are describing where a car owner returns to their vehicle, fails to see their four flat tires, fails to notice the note on their windscreen explaining that their tires have been deflated in protest, fails to notice their car’s tire pressure warnings, and drives any way, and drive enough to ruin their tires AND wheels seems unlikely enough to qualify as catastrophizing. The far more likely outcome is that the owner returns to their car and then spends some time, perhaps an hour or two, figuring out how to reinflate their tires.

    I’m sure the individuals taking part in these protests also support politicians who desire stricter regulations about the types of vehicles they are targetting. Participating in peaceful protest and participating in a political process are not mutually exclusive.

    I wish this form of protest would catch on elsewhere as well. Every day I’m struck by the number of huge gas-guzzling pick up trucks parked around the city, and seemingly every bed completely empty. Letting out the air to their tires would certainly be slower and more work than the old method of puncturing their tires, but has the dual benefit of not necessitating replacement (which has a carbon cost of its own) and not enabling the vehicle owner to file an insurance claim.





  • I was first exposed to the works of Andrea Dworkin in 2009. During that time (and today as well) I had considered myself a sex-positive feminist ally, having found my tribe volunteering for half a decade as a sex educator for my peers in high school and then in college by that point.

    I’m ashamed to admit that I was only motivated to actually read Dworkin’s work after some college-republican took her most controversial and divisive words and used them to paint a group of people (myself included) with a broad brush, with the obvious intent of insisting that feminism at it’s core was an outrageous and unnecessary undertaking.

    The statement that all heterosexual intercourse was rape made me defensive and angry, and I don’t remember reacting well. Eventually, after discussing the matter with my much more activated peers, my thoughts on the (intentionally decontextualized) thesis softened to intellectual curiosity. I have since read Intercourse and Woman Hating and they have changed me for the better.

    Posts like these are becoming harder and harder to find - even this one is from ten years ago. When I reflect on the way that discourse around these topics has softened, I can’t help but think of another passage from Intercourse:

    Men often react to women’s words—speaking and writing—as if they were acts of violence; sometimes men react to women’s words with violence. So we lower our voices. Women whisper. Women apologize. Women shut up. Women trivialize what we know. Women shrink. Women pull back. Most women have experienced enough dominance from men—control, violence, insult, contempt—that no threat seems empty.

    I hope that someone sees this post and the inevitable reactionary comments and is motivated like I was to find out for themselves why so many people have been drawn to the same conclusions over the decades. This isn’t a click-baity controversial opinion with nothing behind it, it is a call first to empathy and then perhaps to action.



  • “Seriously, NixOS is the new Arch when it comes to telling people you use it” …as an Arch user, I feel both attacked and intrigued.

    But seriously, it’s pretty amazing how far the community has come now that having to use the package manager through the command line and editing config files is considered a significant barrier to entry. I’m interested to give it a try to see if the purported advantages with respect to reproducibility and portability are actually robust enough to suit my own use cases.


  • CarloGesualdo@beehaw.orgtoGaming@beehaw.orgFable Teaser
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    The tone is exactly what I’m looking for, and I’ll be cautiously hopeful for a return to form for the series! Peter Molyneux has a bit of a history of over promising and under delivering, but the PR team around this project has mercifully been able to keep Peter from shoving his foot in his own mouth so far. Here’s hoping that playground really takes their time with this one.