Are you positive that’s entirely correct? There are definitely disorders who’s definitions are shaped by their impact on others, like Munchausen’s by proxy, but I’m not a psychologist or psychiatrist. I could see it being described as a form of impairment to an important area of life to not being able to form healthy non-destructive relationships, and I think impairment is one of the criteria by which a disorder can be defined

I could also just be wrong though, and it’s a fair point regardless. Perhaps “defined by” wasn’t quite the right way to word things

Well that’s neat. Not everyday you get to learn you’re a little bit dumb lol

Really enjoyed the video!

Edit: on second thought maybe it happens more often than I’d care to admit 😅

Thank you very much. As someone with a lot of challenges with mental illness myself, it’s something I think about a lot.

I think the important thing is really just that mental illness doesn’t shield you from accountability for how you impact other people, and for a personality disorder that primarily manifests in traits that harm people, that’s a hard thing to reconcile with that person’s merits. Doesn’t mean you can’t or shouldn’t, just that because you are still responsible for potentially hurting people, and have a disorder that makes you very likely to do so, those things will be very hard for people to square.

Another example is paraphilias. Paraphilias can include things like pedophilia, which manifests in a desire to do something that would subject someone to profound amounts of trauma, the likes of which most of us couldn’t even begin to appreciate. Can someone with such a paraphilia be a good person who is kind, and does not harm people in that way? Yes. Can that person be largely a good person in most contexts, but cause people enormous harm as a result of their paraphilia? Also yes.

In some ways we are all people with conditions that affect who we would be otherwise, and in other ways we are all just people, and conditions are used descriptively to communicate the traits that we have.

At the end of the day, the thing that matters is how you treat people. If you cause people harm, it might be more understandable given the context of a personality disorder, but it doesn’t absolve you of any responsibility. And if you don’t, then you haven’t done anything wrong. And I mean that for each moment in time, each interaction. Humans are messy and complicated, and generally ideas like “good person”, “bad person”, are reductive.

I’m sorry you feel trapped or defined by your diagnosis. That can be a painful place to be. I have a close friend with borderline personality disorder who has at times felt similarly. Only thing that matters is whether you’re an asshole. Only thing that ever has mattered, only thing that ever will.

Edit: just want to be very clear- the fact that it will be hard for people to engage with you purely based on your behaviour in a given interaction is not something you deserve. Its the actions and how they affect people that count, even if I can empathize with why it’d be hard for people

Glad I could help 😊

Thats fucking brilliant, I love it

It might be because if it’s anything like spiral linux by the same creator, it’s likely (more-or-less) just a pre-customized install rather than its own distro with its own repos and whatnot. Meaning that an old image would just update to a new version of opensuse with all changes and tweaks intact

Beautifimous!

I’m a little confused, what do you mean? That because it’s an open source project it’s more polite to request than demand?

Sincere question, I don’t quite follow

Oh shit, thats awesome, thanks for sharing!

Mega cute!

Yeah, I had sort of assumed 😅. I appreciate the editor blessing us with more snoot

Ah… Yeah 6e seems like a reasonable ask

That’s awesome! The links to buy seem to be down though which is less than helpful

🫂 mental health is ass

Why he’s 75% snoot!

Lol, sorry, I didnt know enough specific details to explain prior to going through the Wikipedia page.

Hope you have a lovely day!

Is this even a shitpost? 😅

Neat!

What exactly does activitypub server framework mean?

Edit: found this as their description-
Fedify is a TypeScript library for building federated server apps powered by ActivityPub and other standards, so-called fediverse. It aims to eliminate the complexity and redundant boilerplate code when building a federated server app, so that you can focus on your business logic and user experience

Thank you for explaining, that’s super interesting 😊 I look forward to trying some at some point

Hope you have a lovely day!