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  • What constitutes a hobby?

    I was encouraged from a young age to read books. I still do. I enjoy it. Are books a hobby?

    My parents are both music fans. Had a big music collection, went to a lot of concerts. I’m the same. I enjoy it.

    It’s a short leap from books (eg: lotr) and some music (eg: some metal, some prog rock) to DND and similar games. It looked cool so I got into it.

    Bikes are pretty ecologically friendly and the exercise is good. I’ve only dipped my toes into biking but it wouldn’t be a big leap to buy my own bike, find s meetup, or whatever.

    A friend of mine learned about weaving… somewhere. I don’t know where actually. But they said "that looks cool’ and looked into it. Now they weave and knit and such. Read about it online, watched some videos, signed up for a class.

    A guy I know saw some photos online and went “that’s cool. I could do that” and I think took a beginner class in it. Bought an entry level camera and just has fun taking pictures of stuff.

    The common thread here is it’s all stuff people enjoy.

    Maybe delete more of your social media. That stuff is bad for you. A friend of mine started tracking how much time they spent on it, and realized it was like 4 hours a day doing nothing on Instagram. It’s mostly trash. You don’t need it.

    Some guys at work are getting into chess. Not sure where it started but now they’re playing and reading about strategy and stuff.

    Don’t beat yourself up over being bad at things.











  • Video Games are a broad medium, akin to reading. Asking “should I get into books?” would be similarly difficult to answer.

    Also, be mindful of sturgeon’s law. 90% of everything is crap. For every “Taylor Swift” that was widely popular and successful, there’s 9 meh bands no one remembers.

    All of that said, it’s a wide and deep medium with a lot of experiences.

    If you like card games, there’re related genres. Deck builders are popular. Slay the Spire is popular. Cobalt Core is fun and not as hard. Monster Train is pretty good.

    Those are all also “rogue lites”, so you could make the leap from there to something like FTL.

    Lots of options.

    Probably don’t spend a lot of money up front. Stuff goes on sale on Steam pretty often.

    Probably avoid “gacha” games that are free to play or have “loot box” stuff. Those tend to be exploitive and bad.






  • Most people don’t know much, and don’t care that they don’t know much. Half of US adults can’t read at a 6th grade level. They don’t care about and probably do not understand complex topics.

    That’s it. They just want cat gifs, and that’s the end of the thought.

    I knew someone who was smart and successful and politically aware. She didn’t care about any of this. She was tired from work and just wanted the familiar ease or twitter. Trying to figure out which server to sign up for and finding content was too much work.

    A lot of people have executive dysfunction. Making a choice is hard.