• DragonTypeWyvern
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    3 months ago

    Probably a bad idea to engage with a post about touching prostates then

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      3 months ago

      I’m sorry that you’re uncomfortable that I have boundaries. Maybe it’s a bad idea for you to engage in society, because you’re not very good at it.

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        What a wild level of self entitlement to post a public comment and then insist everyone else respect your unstated personal boundaries, like they should know your trauma and you’re not the one walking into an obviously sexual space.

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        3 months ago

        This is a shit post. If you’re setting boundaries it would be wise to not say things that sound like a joke (“I’ll bite you”, “checkmate”) so people don’t make sexual jokes in response.

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          If you’re setting boundaries it would be wise to not say things that sound like a joke (“I’ll bite you”…

          That’s not a joke. I will bite you. Don’t touch me without my consent.

          If you do enjoy touching people without their consent, consider fucking right off.

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          I am under no obligation to be wise for your benefit. I am wise for my own benefit. Good day.

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            That was a manner of speech. No one actually cares about your wisdom or level thereof as you gauge it, but you’re ignoring much objectivity in your refusal to acknowledge it was perhaps you who did the minor social error.

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              it was perhaps you who did the minor social error.

              Good thing I don’t care. I’m sure someone else with boundaries you don’t approve of will come along, in time, for you to tut at.

              Good day.

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                For someone who grouses about humanity, you’re scorning a ton of them. The only thing I’m angry is I wasted my time trying to get through. Others have explained causality and how absurd it is to expect your mind read. Thank you for wasting the kindness of my explanation of a turn of phrase for someone who amidst their boundaries stated they’re neurodivergent. I love doing that, and that is extreme sarcasm. May you be forever misunderstood.

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                  For someone who grouses about humanity, you’re scorning a ton of them.

                  Why would I not scorn humanity when I don’t endorse it?

                  May you be forever misunderstood.

                  I live in a world where people don’t fix the issue of hungry children. There’s nothing to ‘understand’, other than that humans are not sufficiently moral.

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          Agreed, you wouldn’t be a good therapist. You don’t seem to be able to grasp that I have boundaries, and that I can communicate them online, after all.