She wants to go shopping. I tell her that I just want rice. She ignores my request and buys spicy food, which I can’t eat because of reflux.
She keeps buying food that only one person will eat, when I tell her to buy food that everyone can eat, she just changes the topic and doesn’t listen to me.
Her behavior is degrading my socialist values. :/
I have no idea how to do that; I’m not an expert on charisma.
I’m not charismatic either, I’m extremely socially awkward. It’s just a matter of learning how other people have success talking and convincing people and trying it out.