• DPUGT@lemmy.ml
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      1
      ·
      3 years ago

      I know of many systems. Systems are inhuman things, created by engineers to manipulate things.

      Humans are not things, and belong in no systems. Saying “but this other system is better” just misses the point.

      Most if not all the other developed countries have good quality public services

      No, they have just succeeded in convincing their populations that these are good. That’s not the same thing. I don’t need my children in a “better public school” where better just means “they do the same things, but more successfully”. I need them far away from such things, distances measured in astronomical terms.

      Europe is dead. It does not know it yet, it will keep limping along for another century at most. What’s the fertility rate again? Everything about its culture is killing it, and it can’t escape that fate.

      The opinions of dying people don’t do much to sway me. My descendants will tell spooky stories about the place that whined itself to death.

        • poVoq@lemmy.ml
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          1
          ·
          edit-2
          3 years ago

          Lets not call each other insane, please.

          I think the view expressed here is incredibly cynical and with such a cynical view the negative outcome for a society is a forgone conclusion, but I don’t think it is worth imposing my more optimistic view on other people (and it would not convince them anyways).

        • DPUGT@lemmy.ml
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          1
          ·
          3 years ago

          mean… we’re a social species. We’ve evolved to live in systems called societies.

          Sure, if you want to stretch the definition to meaningless. I named my house “society” therefor I live in one too!

          Why do you consider you live better in the us then? And with such hate towards other people

          I don’t. There are things I have to work around even in the US, if I moved, there would be different thins to work around. The US has fewer of these than some places, but not substantially more than other places.

          I don’t hate anyone. Hatred is a peculiar emotion that I have felt in the past, directed towards specific individuals (low count). I hold no hatred towards any group of people, whatever the manner of grouping.

          I mostly have indifference for humans in general. I make exceptions for people I like. As for public school teachers, even the ones who were cruel or didn’t give a shit to me personally… how can I blame them? My mother didn’t do anything about it, kept sending me back. If someone should have done something, surely it was her don’t you think? But public school teachers continue to behave stupidly, continue to make poor life choices (their career, in case that’s obvious), and will even scuttle around on the ground picking up dollar bills like an over-aged stripper at the nudie bar.

          If they are humiliated, how is it anything other than they doing this to themselves?

          About Europe, the fertility rate is not very different from the US.

          Anything below replacement is eventual extinction. And it’s so far below that that it’s absurd. Children growing up seeing everyone around them have one child, or none at all… they internalize it, think it’s normal. Then they grow up to have one or none themselves. Which math says means it goes even lower since the ceiling was set but not the floor. Sure, you can pretend that some day 80 years from now one of those little girls will wake up and say “I want to grow up and have 2.1 children!”… but it really has to be all little girls who say that. If it’s just one in 10, then those girls have to say “I want to grow up and have 21 children!”. Neither of those is plausible.

          Dead. The US might be too. Certainly heading that way. Wouldn’t that be a hoot?

          you’re as dead as

          I don’t identify as my country though, unlike yourself. You see yourself as a citizen of X, one of many, collectively acting like some gigantic robot made out of people. One that can die even if some of the individuals survive. Me? I’m just me. My existence in this country is an accident of geography.

          • poVoq@lemmy.ml
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            1
            ·
            edit-2
            3 years ago

            Anything below replacement is eventual extinction. And it’s so far below that that it’s absurd. Children growing up seeing everyone around them have one child, or none at all… they internalize it, think it’s normal. Then they grow up to have one or none themselves. Which math says means it goes even lower since the ceiling was set but not the floor. Sure, you can pretend that some day 80 years from now one of those little girls will wake up and say “I want to grow up and have 2.1 children!”… but it really has to be all little girls who say that. If it’s just one in 10, then those girls have to say “I want to grow up and have 21 children!”. Neither of those is plausible.

            Your argument has one glaring logical error: The overall population of Europe is growing and not shrinking. Yes, this is due to immigration, but with a well managed immigration that ensures the new-comers are integrated into society this is no problem at all and in fact a positive outcome for all involved. Now arguably immigration isn’t that well managed in Europe, but at least it is mostly managed better then in the US (lately… they used to be better at it).

            • DPUGT@lemmy.ml
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              1
              ·
              3 years ago

              Your argument has one glaring logical error: The overall population of Europe is growing

              Yes. One of us has a glaring logical error. It is not me. Populations can (temporarily) grow, even as the fertility rate goes below replacement. Just as a car that runs out of gas can coast along for awhile on momentum. Sitting in the passenger seat, you taunt me with “I’ve invented perpetual motion”. I just smile and nod.

              Yes, this is due to immigration

              Those countries the people come from… what’s happening to their fertility rates? Aren’t those declining? Are the rates of decline decreasing or increasing? Do you see any evidence of it bottoming out at all? Will it bottom out at 2.1, or go lower?

              They have the same problem you do. You just have a head start.

              this is no problem at all

              This is laughable. I am not a racist. Assume each immigrant magically integrates instantly and perfectly… you’ll just run out of them is the problem. Or, more accurately, the problem is that you’ll run out of them and that you’re somehow deluded enough to never notice that you’ll run out of them. The fertility rates are declining even in the countries where the immigrants come from, with no signs of slowing down at all. They’ll hit 2.1 and keep plummeting further. What will you do then?

              Or, if we want to dig deeper, you don’t even know why it’s falling. You bandy around sophistry like “when women are educated they have fewer children” and just leave it at that. You can’t explore the ideas, for some instinctive fear that you might discover double secret misogyny or something.

              Children internalize the norms they grow up with. Every immigrant child in Europe is internalizing your childlessness norms. You’re converting them to be like you in that regard, not just the other stuff, the positive “integration” stuff. And you’re converting them far faster than their great numbers can hope to overcome.

              In your collective psychology, there is something that makes you all feel as if you’re bad. So bad that you shouldn’t exist. And your wish will eventually come true. Personally I’m not surprised, it is the continent that gave us a century of world wars, pogroms, holocausts, and other villainous acts of barbarism. Maybe you guys have the right idea.

              Listen to the stuff being said to me in this thread. That I’m privileged and hateful. You want me to feel miserable with you. To be ashamed, embarrassed, and to change. Why would I want to become what you are?

              You’re already all dead. You just haven’t noticed yet.

              but at least it is mostly managed better then in the US

              No argument there. We should let in anyone who wants to be here… whether they want to stay and be citizens, or just stay awhile and go back home. Anyone smart enough to want to come here is an asset, and it’s sort of crazy that their home countries would let them leave. No strings, no gotchas… if they haven’t been convicted of a felony or have untreated tuberculosis, let them in. Bricklayer or PhD.

              • poVoq@lemmy.ml
                link
                fedilink
                arrow-up
                1
                ·
                3 years ago

                Uhmm, you realize the world population is nearly 8 billion people and still growing fast? We will not run out of “them” anytime soon, and even if we do at some point (far in the future) that is probably a good thing as the world is way over-populated as it is right now already.

                Sorry, but your logic really doesn’t hold up there at all.

                • DPUGT@lemmy.ml
                  link
                  fedilink
                  arrow-up
                  1
                  ·
                  3 years ago

                  Uhmm, you realize the world population is nearly 8 billion people and still growing fast?

                  Let’s imagine a simpler scenario, for those who might read our comments but are bad at math. We won’t use humans (too much baggage), but little aliens we’ll call zoops.

                  Zoops have two biological sexes that procreate together. There are two specimens, a Y and a Z. They have two offspring, also Y and Z. The population has doubled, but the fertility rate is at exact replacement level. When the two older zoops die, there will be only two. Zoops have no incest taboos, and so the second generation procreates twice.

                  In this way, the population has reached a steady state. But what if, instead, they only procreated once? This population is dead. Period. Sure, it will hang on a little longer, and sure, you’ll scream “but their population increased by 50% in just minutes” as some sort of lame argument that overpopulation is a concern. No, that was never a concern, instead extinction is the real risk.

                  We are in the period where humans are just having the one offspring per two parents, and since the parents don’t immediately die, it looks to you as if the population is “still growing fast”.

                  We will not run out of “them” anytime soon

                  You will indeed run out of them within 25 years. Within your lifetime. This will be about the time that you personally are relying on them to be the nurse’s aids in your nursing homes and to wipe your geriatric ass.

                  and even if we do at some point (far in the future) that is probably a good thing as the world is way over-populated as it is right now already.

                  No one growing up in this world you imagine will think “ok, the population has fallen enough now it’s time to start having 2.1 children again”.

                  You belong to a death cult. Suicidal at the species level.

                  • poVoq@lemmy.ml
                    link
                    fedilink
                    arrow-up
                    0
                    ·
                    edit-2
                    3 years ago

                    I don’t know where you get your figures from, but the global fertility rate is still above replacement level, and in sub-saharan Africa it is easily twice the global rate.

                    Also even at a slightly below replacement rate (where the global fertility rate is heading indeed) it will take centuries or even millennia before the global population will have shrunk significantly.

                    It is totally moot speculating what society will look like in a thousand years or so, and yes maybe people will decide to get more children again then.