Hey everyone, I’ve removed bans for everyone that did not request one in the previous admin thread. (I think. If you got banned and I didn’t restore your account yet, let me know and I’ll fix it.) Don’t worry! We’re not gonna just ban people for no reason.

In case anyone hasn’t seen it yet, Alaskaball confirmed that Sangria was their admin alt. They were messing around with their admin tools on their own account and figured it would be seen as a funny bit, but without being informed of the bit many of the mods and admins were just as shocked, confused, and appalled as you were. I’ve talked to the other admins and mods, and we’re all gonna take it easy on bits for a bit. (Pun intended. This is the last one, I promise.)

If you’re afraid that there’s been an infiltration of transphobic, egomaniacal wrecker mods who hate the users, I want to assure you that’s absolutely not the case. The overwhelming majority of mods and admins on this site are trans. Our admins are all trusted, long-time users in good standing. We regularly browse, comment, and post on our main accounts. You post and chat with us daily as comrades, and we value all of you. You may not recognize the usernames on our admin accounts because we regularly swap the alts used for admin privileges. This is why you’ll see really old or unused alt accounts as well as really new accounts on the admin team.

I’ve seen a lot of speculation down below, some entertaining, some upsetting. We absolutely do not accept transphobia or any form of bigotry on this site. Some of the statements provided by mods and admins have been seen as transphobic and bioessentialist. I want to offer some transparency, but also clarify that I can’t get much more specific on this for personal security reasons.

During the earlier discussions on how we felt things could be improved with these communities, multiple trans mods and admins described their reasoning in favour of the change by expressing with a variety of wording that it’s the [he/him] demographic in particular that has been the source of toxic and troubling behavior in the tanks. That the he/hims haven’t been beating the accusations, so to speak. With that group being largely cishet white guys on this site, these two terms were assumed to roughly correlate. We weren’t making prepared statements for release, the comments that got posted here were paraphrased and combined from more casual comments made by trans people, in the mod chat to mostly other trans people about some of the chauvinistic and ironically bigoted posting habits that they saw as alienating and unhealthy for the site, and what we could do to improve the situation. We genuinely didn’t foresee the potential for a miscommunication of those statements as being bioessentialist, and want to extend our sincerest apologies for the misunderstanding.

Edit: Please feel welcome to post in c/gossip as you would have posted in the_dunk_tank, and in c/counterpropaganda as you would have posted in the_dredge_tank.

  • PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net
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    Hmmm why did you post get taken down for doxxing people then?

    It’s not actually! It was locked to prevent further drama but left up so people could inform themselves about whether they wanted to give her money. I was explicitly told this by an admin. Maybe you should take it up with them

    because you put their instagram handle in the fucking post

    Just a straight up lie because the truth isn’t damning enough. People can go see the post! It’s still up!

    You should have been permabanned for not taking another user’s security on here seriously.

    You know what LeylaLoves, I hope every time you see me post, a little bile crawls up the back of your throat and you can taste it. The knowledge that you have silently seething over this for half a year gives me great pleasure

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          Post the post, let everybody see the hate mob you cooked up for this person. Watching that post in real time was dissapointing

          No, I’m not going to call you a slur, are you going to start a hate mob towards me for something I did in 4 years ago?

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            I don’t know of anything from four years ago that you should be held accountable for. I find you entirely unmemorable, in fact, and could not name a single thing you’ve done on here, good or bad. But if you’d like to send me a list of your actions please do and I’ll review it when I have time

            You can go right ahead and post it. I can’t be bothered. I doubt you’ve looked at it recently since you keep lying about it, so it might take you a minute, but I’m sure you’ll get there.

            I hope you have a wonderful day

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                I’m very sorry to hear you’re unable to use the search function that is built into the site. It is extremely complicated, to be fair. As a courtesy to you, I’m putting your kind request on my to do list. It is currently No. 346 on the list, behind getting into The Fall’s discography but ahead of getting out my holiday decorations. Please reply to this post with “OPT IN” if you would like to receive automated updates on processing your request

                Have a blessed day