• shalafi@lemmy.world
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    56 minutes ago

    As a young Tulsan on my first tech support job, it took me ages to figure out that Yanks aren’t as mean as rattlesnakes, they just talk that way.

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    4 hours ago

    Near as I can tell since moving back, being “Iowa nice” means “be white and republican and talk down to everyone else” so no, more like acts nice, is mean for us.

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      4 hours ago

      I saw more Confederate battle flags around Indianapolis than I did in Atlanta. Fuck Indianapolis.

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      8 hours ago

      Bruh, I moved out here two years ago, and holy shit! These are the most miserable, hateful, rude, nasty, violent, stupid, lazy, and just all-around shitty people I have encountered in my life. Really, damn near everywhere I go in this state, I observe this behavior. I’m originally from Michigan, but I’ve been all over the US and really have not been anywhere like this.

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    9 hours ago

    I get that this is basically a politcal compass meme overlayed on a map (and also that this is in cartography anarchy), but here’s how I’d actually divide things up based on basically 0 practical experience:

    Acts nice, is nice: West Coast (WA, OR, CA, HI) (WA might have to move down to the next category if they’re feeling surly)

    Acts mean, is nice: Northeast (ME, NH, VT, MA, RI, CT, NY, PA, NJ, MD, DE)

    Acts nice, is mean: Southeast (AR, LA, KY, TN, MS, AL, WV, VA, NC, SC, GA, FL), Midwest (ND, SD, NE, KS, MN, IA, MO, WI, IL, MI, IN, OH), and Alaska

    Acts mean, is mean: The rest (ID, MT, WY, NV, UT, CO, AZ, NM, OK, TX)

    “Acts nice, is mean” still makes up a large part of the country, but “Acts mean, is mean” has been trending up for about a decade now.

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      9 hours ago

      Alaska belongs more in the “acts mean, is nice” category. But it’s less “mean” and more “apathetic and disinterested.”

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      10 hours ago

      And of course that only aims to divide things up into big blocks similar to the original image. If I wanted to get more granular I’d probably put UT in “Acts nice, is mean” for example.

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    10 hours ago

    This map applies to every individual city as well, just make sure “acts mean is mean” is the rich quadrant of the city and the rest will map nicely.

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      6 hours ago

      That may be the “acts nice, calls the police on you because you’re on their neighborhood and don’t match the pantone”

  • TGhost [She/Her]@lemm.ee
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    8 hours ago

    Downvoted.
    Act Nice between whites ans rich people dont count.
    Silicon fucking valley ? Ask to latinos what they think ans where they are living…

    Im French BTW, and I can see that.