welcome to the weekly how’s your week going thread

this thread is a pretty straightforward and relaxed one for giving updates on how your week is going and chat like that. nothing special


on my front: last week was total chaos, so hoping for things to calm down this week because it is completely fucking up my groove; unfortunately reddit is not making that easy. this is also not ideally timed for my emotional state. anyways, read book 20 for the year (America City by Chris Beckett). on book 21. maybe i’ll marathon through a bunch of these in between keeping the site from being on fire

  • alyaza [they/she]@beehaw.orgOPM
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    oh cool, our landlord is finally fixing the fucking hole in our bathroom ceiling (has been there for like an entire ass year). nice of them to eventually get around to it, i guess

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      to give you guys some perspective this wasn’t a little hole either. they had to take out an entire, probably 2ft by 2ft, square panel of the ceiling (there was a leak upstairs which fucked everything up). we’ve been living with that just casually above the bathtub for an eternity. very stupid, and landlords should not exist

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      A year?!

      Reminds me of back in April 2021 when the building’s chiller unit died. So no AC. It was unseasonably hot during that time, peaking into the upper 80s/low 90s F (~30-33C). Overnight, the temps were still pretty elevated, especially since this was in the middle of the city, which meant lots of heat radiating off the streets, buildings, etc.

      It took the apartment managers like 4 weeks to get it fixed. People were starting organize protests. Our apartments ended up on the news.

      They did buy me a portable AC though. And they gave my brother and I like half off rent for the month. Still sucked. Thank god I don’t live there anymore, since that wasn’t the only issue we experienced.

      Hopefully you were able or will be able to wring some concessions out of them for them waiting a whole ass year!

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        Hopefully you were able or will be able to wring some concessions out of them for them waiting a whole ass year!

        haha, no. what we we gonna do, move? there’s no housing around here that’s affordable, and we barely afford this place as is. we did get a new dishwasher, but that was incidental and also a thing they broke and didn’t fix for like six months.

  • CleoTheWizard@beehaw.org
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    Think I’ll have to share in calling this week total chaos as the last few days I’ve been moving across the country to pursue an internship at NASA. It’ll be my first week at work there so here’s hoping it goes well. I also have a class I’m currently taking with an exam tomorrow. Very stressful indeed.

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    After a couple of months doing photosynthesis, my ADHD medication finally decided to allow me to study this morning. But no more than 90 minutes. Now I’m again in my endless scrolling and doing nothing productive.

    Besides that, I’m trying to be more active in kbin.social / lemmy instances to create more content through comments or post and engage, knowing the inevitable doom from Reddit (although I have an user on sopuli since last year).

  • d3fc0n1@beehaw.org
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    It’s going pretty good because I think I’m finally making some progress towards being more focused. Although I need to confess that was pretty thrilled with the onboarding on lemmy and checked it a lot during the weekend.

    Apart from that I’m cutting ties with general stuff and news and focusing on: books (reading The Stranger right now), one single magazine about current issues in the world, hearing good music and starting to play an old RPG after great advice I received on c/gaming. I’ll workout after work and then start a campaign.

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      Oooh the stranger, I love that book! I remember how baffled I was when my father gave it to me when I was younger, it was unlinke anything I’d ever read, but definitely had an impact on me

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    Very good! Just found this community, learning to navigate the site a bit (so far it’s nice and straightforward). Made some onigiri for the first time with scrambled egg filling. Came out decent!

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    Woke up at 3am and couldn’t fall back asleep, but it’s a freaking GOOD day, got some caffeine, not a lot of meetings at work today, and the Lemmy community grows, I’m loving it here

  • Chloyster [she/her]@beehaw.org
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    I’m doing pretty great. Spent all weekend volunteering at pride events and meeting lots of amazing people. Been having fun hanging around beehaw too so that’s been a positive as well 😊

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      So far Beehaw seems like a chill place to chat, I’m interested to see how things go in the next few weeks!

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    It’s been good so far. We had thought one of my cats had cancer, but we got a call from the vet yesterday and it turns out she doesn’t, so that’s excellent.

    I’m trying out this timer app to try and keep myself on some kind of schedule. So far so good!

  • Nooch@beehaw.org
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    My wife and I decided we will start trying to get pregnant. we have not, because we live check to check. shes 41 now, and we are just getting older so why not take a chance?

    Self love, and self compassion are new concepts in my life this week. I typically rely on repression, and pushing how I feel down. I aim to replace my coping technique from repression, to a more positive and healthier self love.

    Like a few others here, this is my first comment and I look forward to new possibilities and new friends, and I hope you have a great rest of your week.

  • Hexorg@beehaw.org
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    Really good here! My mom is visiting and I took a week off, so I’m fixing up the house while she’s helping with the kids. I’ve cleaned the garage, put cat6 drops in every room, and repainted my deck. And it’s only day 3!

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    So far so good! Chores done around the house and it’s looking like I’ll have some extra time for reading and gaming this week!

  • Gaywallet (they/it)@beehaw.org
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    I had two absolutely wonderful dates yesterday and I’m still glowing from the experience.

    Helping to manage and grow beehaw these last few days has kept me exceptionally busy. It’s fun and exciting and challenging and I need to make sure to balance that against my own mental health and if/when to engage with users and when to let others help.

    I’m really annoyed with my care team right now when it comes to coordinating the next post-op steps for my peripheral nerve stimulator. I have a lot of feedback for them, but right now just trying to understand what I need to do next and what I need to do to get them to program my shoulder implant. I guess I’m a cyborg bunny now, officially 🤖🐰

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    My partner lives in the US, and I’m Canadian. It’s been stressful for both of us to pay for visits and to be constantly saying goodbye. I need to get a stable income, then we’ll be able to live together. We’ve been working on an indie game together, and I hope it’ll do well. Our Steam page just went up, which feels really nice.

  • JCPhoenix@beehaw.org
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    My company is hosting our big event of the year towards the end of the month. We’re expecting about 600 people this year. While we’ve been preparing for the last several months, the stress and worry didn’t hit me until today. We have three weeks until we ship our stuff out to the event center and I’m in charge of the logistics. And there are worries that not everything we need will arrive before ship via freight.

    I’m also unveiling some new software for some of our volunteers to use at the event. I have no clue if this is going to work, but from my admittedly limited testing with coworkers, it seems like it will. If it doesn’t work, that’s OK, we can revert to an older system on the fly. But I really want it to work, because I think it’ll be a better experience for the volunteers, attendees, and my coworkers. Plus I don’t want to have wasted all this time researching and setting this up.

    On the plus side, last week my event manager and I met with the AV rental company. We were able to knock off $25,000 from the initial quote by getting rid of stuff we didn’t need and by deciding to run some AV stuff ourselves. Didn’t feel so bad about splurging on upgrades to my train/plane tickets after that!

    This is my 17th edition of this particular annual event. Yeah, I’ve been with the company that long. Anyway, it always comes together and our attendees are always greatly pleased. If there are issues behind the scenes, our attendees never see or know about them. We have several veteran staff who’ve helped run this event more times than me, So any stress and worry is generally overblown. But we still never want to rest on our laurels.

    Regardless, I’ll be happy on July 2, because the event will be over!