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  • Can’t stand a community or instance? Don’t subscribe. Or unsubscribe or block.

    I agree that defederations should not be done lightly, but I just want to point out that “just block” is not a foolproof strategy. An instance block on Lemmy functions like blocking all communities, so you will still see comments from that instance on other posts. Also, the blocked instance will still influence your feed via their votes.

    it has a responsibility to support the network

    Well, on the other hand it also has a responsibility to provide a reasonably well-moderated space that doesn’t include bigots or what’s worse.

    To be clear, I am not advocating for or against defederation of lemmy.ml, just want to add some nuance to this.



  • Its been a focus of mine to try to make lemmy’s comment sorting the opposite of the reddit experience, where the highest rated comment is nearly always just the first one, making all engagement after those first few minutes pointless.

    I think your strategy for going the opposite than reddit works quite well when it comes to comments. However, I don’t think it fits so well with posts (not sure if the strategy/sorting for posts and comments use the same methods). Personally I don’t feel great seeing posts older than 24 hours, especially as I have probably already seen that post. It’ll just stick around for way too long.












  • any discourse here is almost immediately met with deletions and bans … trigger happy mods

    This really depends what instance you go to and what their standards of moderation are. If you’re not happy with your current instance admins / community moderators, then go to another instance or another community (or petition your current mods/admins to improve the situation).

    I get controls to block all of the communities that I don’t want to listen to … Lemmy gives you the ability to block instances

    Yes, mostly. Keep in mind that blocking communities and instances only affects which posts you see in their feed - the members of those communities and instances still get to vote on the other stuff that is in your feed and affect the post ranking in that way. The only way to avoid that is defederation.

    new lemmynsfw community every 30 seconds

    Wouldn’t an instance-level block fix this?

    no distinction in NSFW topics either - whereas there should be NSFW (Porn) and NSF[L] (Gore), etc.

    Tbf this is no different than Reddit and there’s a lack of support in the underlying protocol - it’s not entirely clear how this should be more generally implemented either. You probably want a more generalized tagging system, not just one additional category on top of NSFW.


  • Generally there’s only 2 big problems for me:

    1. The lack of users and activity. Not so bad in tech-oriented areas but many niche places or places for “normal” people are barren.
    2. The homogeneity of the people here. People are generally speaking medium to heavily left-leaning, tech-oriented males of western Europe/US. I identify with that group too, but I wish there was more diversity and less “echo-chamber”-ish content. There is a lot of content that humiliates, jokes about or bashes the worst side of the right wing or laments non-techy people and that kind of thing. It gets a little tiring and I’m afraid it only serves to push that other demographic further away from the fediverse, while we should encourage everyone to use decentralized social media. I don’t think it’s great if the fediverse just becomes “social media but only for left-leaning tech people”.

    Still better than Reddit or Facebook 🤷


  • Remember that the fediverse (lower case f, like “internet”) is about choice, and that choice is primarily about your admins. On Reddit, if you didn’t like a subreddit, you could go to another subreddit or start your own subreddit, so you had some choice of moderators. But you were locked to the Reddit admins.

    On the fediverse, you should vote with that choice, in the same way you vote with your wallet or vote in actual political elections in real life.

    So don’t just go to the largest and most active instance “just because”. Consider your options, find an instance that fits your interests or your location and which has admins that seem reasonable to you, with rules that seem reasonable to you. Remember that different instances are different websites altogether - what goes on one instance might be heinous on another.

    That’s kind of an unwritten rule - every instance is different and has their own rules, written or unwritten. Be mindful of that when choosing your own instance and when visiting other instances.