Mine? As miserable as ever. My little bro wanted to go to a little comic con thing, is just not my vibe, felt surrounded by people in weird costumes is just… Thankfully I was there for like half an hour.

  • Kimdracula@sh.itjust.worksOP
    111·
    6 months ago

    And that’s the problem, that just isn’t me. I’m like that for everyone and everything. I get that isn’t normal, but it is what it is. I just despise being forced to do social stuff, a cringe like situation like a comic con is probably even worse.

    Is like changing nature, you just can’t do that. That’s how rooted is this thing on me, I can’t change it.

      • Kimdracula@sh.itjust.worksOP
        411·
        6 months ago

        It would probably make in existence less useless and maybe would had gave me a girlfriend in my lifetime, I dunno though. I know that isn’t me.

        • Ookami38@sh.itjust.works
          151·
          6 months ago

          You honestly sound very depressed and like you really don’t know what you ARE. Try things, open mindedly, and you may find that some of these things are you, or can be fun regardless. Stop getting in your own way.

        • Glowstick@lemmy.worldEnglish
          3·
          6 months ago

          If you want to change this about yourself, then you can see a therapist to help you do it. You don’t have to be mentally ill to see a therapist, they can just help you make changes in yourself that you want to make. For something like this you would want to see a CBT therapist

        • Zahille7@lemmy.world
          6·
          6 months ago

          So you don’t like comic cons (they have other things at those events besides manga and comics) but you know the language the NPCs speak in a video game?

          You should honestly fit right the fuck in at one of those. Honestly, the awkward self-pity already does. I meet so many people who are incredibly shy/awkward/what-have-you show up and it’s actually their first one, and they always end up having an absolute blast.

          You’re surrounded by like-minded people who are just there to nerd out and have fun with their community. And sometimes the costumes can actually be amazing.