Hexbear has been getting a lot more attention and activity as of late, and while it is very fun to dunk on the new people posting on the site in bad faith, a post to appreciate the new good faith users contributing to the site seems like a great idea.
So, what new users do you appreciate, and what should other potential new users do to get the same reception?
Hexbear appreciation comment:
My instance doesn’t defederate as a general rule. It has its upsides and downsides – I still have dbzer0 and lemmygrad, but I also have to put up with occasional bullshit from exploding heads and similar. Gotta say it’s nice having you folks pop up in my feed to balance out the bad takes.
See, I didn’t know that and randomly picked sdf.org when some of the other instances were having tech issues and growing pains. It quickly became my “primary” account and in all this drama I’ve learned that I was very lucky in my pick. I definitely appreciate the viewpoints I see from hexbear users.
love seeing allies from other instances. 
im gay lol
Woooow how original, a gay hexbear. Sheesh, get some new material
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jk I love all my comrades, gay, trans, bi, and (may I be forgiven for uttering such profanity) straight
Uhhhh…. I’m gay Obama…… and uhhhh…… let me be queer
based
braver than the troops
big vibe
Welcome to hexbear <333 so am I! <3
noway me too <3
We’re all so gay and trans and communist <3
You guys are the cool commie friends I wish to have, and I’m sad I haven’t met you guys before. Such a happy place to get some
GOOD OL’ MURICANfreedom from all the lib crap we endure daily ❤️✨I’ve learned a lot from lurking the unfettered conversation that happens here, subjects that I’ve never heard of discussed in great detail. The shitposting is next level. Just a great mix of leftie content here. Also, the site logo is fire.
If you have questions, feel free to ask.
What is the best way to learn Spanish?
at a young age from a native speaker
preferable to start in the womb or soon after
I think this is the objectively correct answer
However how about for me who is sadly an older adult?
Everyone I know who is trying to learn a language as an adult uses duolingo, but I think that’s more out of convenience and less because it’s actually the best way to learn.
The best way is still probably from a native language speaker who has been teaching a class for a while.
The only folks I’ve known to learn Spanish as adults have all worked back-of-house
A friend of mine is a Spanish first language speaker and when I visit them the next time I would like to have a rudimentary language skill set, just to be nice and show appreciation to them.
worked back-of-house
Does this idiom mean working in areas without customer contact like back office, kitchen, maintenance, IT, technical stuff, labs etc?
It specifically means the kitchen in a bar or restaurant
Is there any generic “intro to Hexbear” post somewhere that I can point other people to when explaining what Hexbear is?
I think there are a lot of people on Lemmy who would fundamentally agree with most of the values held by Hexbear users, but they never give it a chance because of some bad first impression (either they are told by others that Hexbear users are all just trolls, or maybe they even get called a fascist or something like that by somebody with @hexbear in their name).
Would be great if there was some better intro. Does such a thing exist already? I tried searching but did not find anything.
seconding you go to c/askchapo. the gist of it though is that if we smell a hint of reaction in anything you say, the knives, guns, and attack owls come out. otherwise hexbear is kinda very cuddly and a great place for lgbt users, it has some of the most heavy-handed anti-queerphobe moderation ive ever seen on an online space, it mimics the more radical elements of an irl pride event very well. well over 50% of the mod and admin team are queer of some kind at this point and a good number are trans (me included, i mod c/traa). the mod team also takes nsfw tags and content tags for handling violence against women more serious than any space ive seen on the internet outside of maybe news sites that have the default shocking content label.
i don’t know of anything like that. could ask on c/askchapo or ask people at the general megathread
Gotta say I have much enjoyed my time here so far
No weird socially conservative “communism”
No state department brained liberal “socialism”
Only good takes and unironically based people
No weird socially conservative “communism”
this is a subset of the western leftist they attack. i know this is counterintuitive. they’re basically a subset of breadtubers who play antihero / heel roles
they do a great job of making “NATOids” feel good about themselves
jackson hinkle was recruited by tulsi gabbard a US military psyops person
We don’t talk about Maupin
Welcome the
It’s surprisingly hard to find a place that doesn’t veer into patsoc silly reaction or radlib ignorance. I’ll even put up with a bunch of leftcoms or anarchists or anything by else as long as they are anti-imperialist and don’t make one of the two errors above
when a hexbear spots liberals and nazbols
Been lurking for a few months but this is first online space I haven’t gotten those fucked vibes from
I’m still getting through my list of theory so I don’t feel confident joining certain conversations yet but I’d like to think being open-minded to deprogramming all the western propaganda bullshit I’ve ingested over a lifetime has helped me discover this community
I wish hexbear had gone with the name lib.rehab, because finding this place has done so many wonders for getting the worms out of my brain
Don’t feel like you can’t join conversations because you don’t have all the theory down comrade. We’ve all got plenty gaps in our knowledge and people are pretty cool about explaining things if required.
Just make sure to qualify your statements and ask questions in earnest. I appreciate they aren’t making declarations without investigation
pls be the real lebron
holy shit, the GOAT joined our website
also don’t worry, we’re fucking wrong all the time. we then talk it out. it’s how we grow
Say the wrong thing some time. Folk will set you right. Its a bit rough on the ego but nothing stamps out brain worms quite like a stern rebuke and as soon as you say “oh shit you are right” everything is good.
I’d almost consider it like an online anxiety lol. Mustering up the strength to not revert back to being a lurker after not expressing a thought succinctly and powering through the posting to stamp those worms out.
I had that until hexbear. Right now I’m possibly getting torn apart by a comrade who seems to have raead more than me. Otherwise how do I figure out what I don’t know? And this comrade is cool about it
It always helps when it’s an actual discussion instead of a bad faith debate
How’s your son feeling?
It’s been a while since he posted some Jewish conspiracies
You know, I gotta say the whole Lemmy vibe has fixed a lot of that issue for me. I had some 500k karma on Reddit from comments, but I deleted all of them within a week of posting because the anxiety got to me. I wanted to be entirely transient there. Part of the conversation, but as soon as the conversation was over, gone.
Lemmy is a smaller more community-feel community in general, and other than a few bad actors, it’s really peaceful here.
I have wild amounts of anxiety about tons of things, and I don’t feel weird participating here (even without deleting all my content regularly!)
Once you get through the “I’m posting to help everyone here” barrier, which that silly message on posts with no comments helps a ton with, it’s such a good space to exist. Even if you don’t agree, if you do so from a place of open communication and accept what others want to share with you, you’ll be totally fine.
Thanks, this gives me a lot more confidence in just going with the flow. Some of the back and forths here have already been pleasant too
Better yet, if you’re not confident you have the right answer, say that instead of pretending you have all the best takes and then digging in when people disagree. You’ll get an even better reception.
Is As We Have Always Done By Leanne Betasamosake Simpson on that theory list?
I’ll read it! Thank you
If Michael Fassbender isn’t a leftist, we can pull him left by his hog.
Very excited to have you aboard!
No ableism
Don’t forget, if you need to you can disengage from a conversation at any time, just say disengage if you ever need to, if users don’t respect that they get banned on the spot o7
Please post, please ask questions, and remember
John Brown did nothing wrong unlimited bloodshed against Slave Owners
just say disengage if you ever need to
Little corollary: this is not to be used as a “let me post a wall of text and call you names then say ‘disengage’ and call the mods on you if you reply” tool. You have to actually disengage. Learning how to do that is good.
Omg I wish everywhere did that.
I had a conversation earlier that I wanted to disengage with because the person was strawmanning me and it was clear, after pointing out to them already that’s what they were doing, I wasn’t going to have a productive discussion, so I said I was no longer going to interact and got 2 reply meaaages to it, basically trying to egg me on to re-engage, one of which said it was ironic I was telling him I was disengaging… Simply because I told him I was doing so?? (Which I did not respond to, for obvious reasons)
I love that that will be respected here. 💜
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this and no downvotes seem like the best things ever to my anxious ass holy shit
On Lemmy.world the downvotes mean your triggering the cognitive dissonance - that’s my kink.
Finally made an account after lurking for the past few months. This community is one of the few corners of the internet that doesn’t give me psychic damage. Hello, comrades, thank you for the warm welcome and for being cool people on a cool bear website.
Welcome comrade!
look at this bearI am in awe.
hiii <3
Hijacking this for a question: What is a struggle session? /gen
struggle sessions on hexbear are when there’s a large disagreement on a specific subject and arguments ensue. It’s not a struggle session if it’s everyone ganging up on one lib or chud, it’s only one if it’s more of a 50-50 split in the community. Usually it resolves by mods locking the thread but sometimes it spreads to other threads. We don’t allow sectarianism so its not usually a struggle session between say anarchist and marxists, but instead on some single issue.
I was just reading David Priestland’s “The Red Flag” and came across a mention of the Chinese “struggle sessions” in Maoist China, and I have to say I chuckled a bit at the dark humor of this usage
Thank you! Do you happen to know an example of a topic which caused a struggle session?
Past examples include silly topics such as whether or not bidets are bourgeois, to more serious topics such as Xinjiang or Ukraine crisis. Everything from outdoor cats vs. indoor cats, veganism, use of controversial terms/phrases
Thanks for the explanation, I feel like I am ready for my own struggle session. Critical support for the vegan patrol! /hj
Hexbear is a hell of a lot more based than the old /r/chapotraphouse ever was, you’re all spitting fire 🌋
I’m very tempted to make an account on this instance too, much easier to just open the Local feed that way.
if you decide to make an account, check out https://hexbear.net/c/howdy !
Hello, made an account here since the lame instance I was in only federate with other lame instances. I’m exited to post all my bad takes.
here’s hoping I don’t post all of them first
It’s OK, I have the worst takes
Make sure to post them as a top level post during peak posting hours so they can spiral into a true struggle session
I’m exited to post all my bad takes
Lmao this is the best attitude.
We only federate with cool asf instances and only cool asf instances stay federated with us
I’m on beehaw. That place is…special.
Well you for one, for making this topic, it’s a good idea
Assuming you mean new users even from outside the instance, I’ve seen a few users from elsewhere post dune memes, and we need more duneposting
Also more generally the free software / anti-IP / linux content seems to have increased (we had comms for those of course but theirs are bigger) and that’s pretty great too
I appreciate @ewichuu@hexbear.net! She seems super cool and sweet and like she’s here to listen and learn what we’re about, I better not see y’all being mean to her
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uncritical support to ewichuu for being so nice she actually reads my rambling
i just think our she/they comrades are neat
