I know I’m not in trouble, but I do feel bad that I’m probably the reason blahaj.zone will defederate with hexbear. I just thought they had an insane take on what hexbear was and posted it in the_dunk_tank. I included a link because I am not a LIB

but also I am a LIB and so are all of you and I’m sorry for that as well.

  • abc [he/him, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    “NOO, PEOPLE ARE COMMENTING ON MY PUBLIC COMMENT ON MY PUBLIC INSTANCE?? NOOOO 👿 DON’T TAG ME EVER AGAIN HOW DARE YOU BRIGADE MY PUBLIC COMMENT I AM A MODERATOR AND WILL BE TREATED WITH RESPECT.”

    this is how I, a sane person, see this ‘incident’ or whatever you wanna call it. you should not feel sorry or otherwise for sharing their comment lol.

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      I’ll be honest, I didn’t even think about it. I’m just so used to linking to things in the_dunk_tank that I don’t have an account for and can’t even comment on lol

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          I got a comment removed for brigading even though I posted it before the dunk thread and also the post was on my front page! I didn’t brigade I swear! All I said was “Uh oh we’re definitely gonna get defederated then” in response to their “Death to NATO” comments lol

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          They were seething lol. I was trying pretty hard to reason with them and they responded several paragraphs ending with “you should all be fucking ashamed.” I was a little bummed cus I figured there’s decent amount of well-meaning libs there and queer people especially are probably easier to win over to socialism.

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    Update: we’re probably not defederating anymore

    They have a new post debating defederation, posted in their meta community which only shows posts to blajah users (which I kinda feel like they should’ve been done in the first place if they wanted a private discussion). Anyways, users in that thread are split about defedding but it seems like ada changed their mind about it since our admins updated some rules.

  • lol, i saw that. they were describing this place as an alt right instance and believed our pronouns were all ironic.

    definitely feeds into the trope that liberals are baffled by positions outside the window of their indoctrination and the first impulse of many is to try to cram into one of the two slots that exist in their worldview.

    “post-colonial theory”
    is-this
    “is this right wing propaganda?”

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      I’ve been arguing with a user on .world about how hexbear is not transphobic and the pronouns aren’t “blatant mockery of trans people”. When I told them they were wrong, they said hexbear is “typical online terrorists”, putting the pronouns then going around posting “racist, bigoted” stuff. I’m waiting for proof of such posts. 😋

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        It’s possible they’re one of those vaush-brained clowns who genuinely believe that “anti-white racism” is a real problem, and they saw one of us making a joke about “crackers” or whatever lol

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        I keep hearing the “racist bigoted” line and I just don’t get it. Hexbear is the most strict online community I’ve been in when it comes to that sort of thing. Our users are open and welcoming, our mods are lethal.

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          Some of them a lying. Some of them think “anglos” or lmayo are racism against whitey. I’m surprised we haven’t had our burning flag emojis as evidence of anti-Swiss swiss-cool bigotry or whatever.

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          Yea, I’m not sure where it’s coming from because I haven’t seen it. I also linked to the Hexbear code of conduct and highlighted the first two rules.

          Tbh, I was not sure about Hexbear when federation started, but I never got the impression that anyone was bigoted or racist. Like there’s literally all the pride hexbear icons, right?

          I feel like these comments are either intentionally malicious or intentionally ignorant assumptions.

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              Sorry to off-topic interject here, but due to the flurry of whatever you posted in your comment, I figured it might be an ok place to ask.

              I’ve been interacting with hexbear a decent amount since y’all federated, and the images don’t work on my app (for example whatever you posted above came through for me as a series of partial image slices stacked on top of each other, and in-line gifs/images make the comment they are in completely unreadable).

              Do any of you use apps/pwas (I know hexbear was here before they really existed, so might be a long shot), and if so, which ones actually display hexbear content properly?

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                Sorry, I don’t use an app. I just use the Firefox app feature of making a website into a dedicated app.

                Do other instances display images properly? I think the way our emotes are supposed to work like inline images do across lemmy, but I might be wrong.

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                  They do, in that there’s an image link, but the content is properly shifted around it so it can be read.

                  Hexbear content also gives the image link (tho your comment above seems to have combined them all into one link), but the comment around it gets partially hidden and garbled. I’ve heard your gifs are really big, that may be why?

                  Either way, this app doesn’t have direct messaging and doesn’t handle a lot of stuff well, like multiple image posts, so looking for other options. Since hex seems to be the most problematic presently (no offense intended, ofc 😜) I figured I’d start with something that works for y’all, if I can find it.

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                some people here definitely use mobile apps but I’m not one of them… once the PR goes through to fix federated emoji CSS that our devs put together then the standard web UI should show them correctly on any instance, but until then they’re going to be big.

                If your app is showing them not just big but also mangled like you describe you may want to put in a bug report with the developer though.

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                  I have put in a report, but this app handles other things very poorly as well and doesn’t have direct messages at all, so I’m looking for a change anyway :)

                  I assume they were mangled because there were so many in a row (it looked like a lot of them anyway), which caused the app to create a single image link for them rather than trying to render them.

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            I think it’s the inverse of conservatives who believe they aren’t racist while doing, saying, and believing racist things. They were provided a liberal (in the classical ideological sense) education that told them racism is bad but didn’t delve too deeply into self criticism. So now conservatives and liberals know racism is bad, but not really how to understand or identify it. So you get conservatives who steadfastly believe they aren’t racist because they don’t think they’re bad, and liberals who label things they don’t like as racist because it’s one of the most bad things they can think of.

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      They took issue specifically with “Death to NATO” and when people explained that meant the dismantling of NATO, they changed it to “Death to People of NATO” which isn’t even a thing!

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      lol, they could at least come up with an actual reason about muh authoritarian tankies instead of straight up lying

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      Yeah, I stopped posting emotes in other instances once I realized what it was doing. Or at the very least, I’ll spoiler them with a warning that it’s gonna be a big emote.

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    Yeah honestly we just need to not link instances we’re fedded in the dunk tank. Just screenshot, or maybe just use the fedilink (the rainbow star thing), so that it’s at least extra steps for someone to go there, read the post, copy the link, search it back on hexbear, click on the post, and then comment/“brigade”. I don’t think that calling out liberalism of other instances is really a bad thing/even brigading, but we should keep the discussion here not in their comments.

    Shit we could even start pinging people like we used to back on CTH, but we need to find some way to not blow up every lib post on another instance into a massive struggle session. Better if the discourse happens here on our turf not out there.

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      Yeah, I think not directly linking to other instances is probably the correct choice going forward. The irony is that I posted it because I wanted to talk about it here and not there, because it was clear there was no getting through to that person.

      Also, I want to be slightly fair to myself and say they would have called it brigading regardless. That post was full of hexbears well before my post. Our posting powers are too strong, we need to leave the training weights on in other instances.

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    I do take issue with this mod action though, because I commented this comment after finding the thread naturally through the front page of hexbear and linked to it AFTER making the comment

    should have removed the comment for being too funny or something cool, now I’m very embarassed

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    Blahaj was always going to defed us. From the beginning they were more committed to the red scare stuff than even /r/196 was.

    i mentioned this wayyy back in my comment history, but am too lazy to dig it up.

    don’t sweat it if you end up being the excuse for them. This was all predetermined.