I’m (19F by the way, not like 50) a bad texter. I can be not dry when I want to be, but usually I’m just not up for texting. I really don’t engage with my friends. (I’m asocial).

I don’t participate in their activities. I don’t really ask them how they are, or what their interests are. I don’t even engage in deep discussion with them unless I’m up for it.

When my friend sends a video that reminded her of me or that she finds funny, I don’t click it and just ignore it.

Maybe my friends are growing apart and they text me less because of this, but I’m kind of okay with that because I know they will be there for me when I need it and because I’m genuinely just tired/bored most of the time.

One time, my friend asked me if I’d like to spend time with her, and I just point-blank said “No”. IDK if that’s rude just because I’m being honest and also because it’s not personal, I don’t want to engage with anyone.

  • tetris11@lemmy.ml
    102·
    5 days ago

    You are the best friend. You tell it like it is. When a funeral comes around, you smirk in the knowledge that we’ll all be dead soon. People need spicy truths like that distilled into one word responses, it screams of eloquence and high-brow thinking.

    Why waste time on the uggs, when you can use that time more efficiently to work on your charming personality.

    I personally think you are a visionary in this respect, and am certain that I would have to avert my gaze from the sheer blinding sheen of being in the presence of a superior being if I were to ever share the same planet as you.

        • Aurora@lemmy.mlEnglish
          3·
          4 days ago

          Of course not. She screams of eloquence and high-brow thinking, and mere sarcasm I does not match her level of comprehension. She’s otherworldly

          • Azzu@lemm.ee
            3·
            4 days ago

            It’s not really about the sarcasm itself, what they were saying was so ridiculous that having that as an actual opinion is just completely unrealistic. It shows that your conecpt of reality in ragards to yourself, i.e. self-awareness, is currently very lacking.

            • CatDemons4@lemmings.worldOPEnglish
              13·
              4 days ago

              Eh, I’m sure my friends think that about me too. They come to me for help/advice and talk about how pretty I am.

              They also are very kind to me. They do things for me and give things to me as gifts. This one lady bought me something even