• Habahnow@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    Discussing relationship problems. Some can view it as talking about awkward topics, or can make someone uncomfortable. But, so long as it’s done correctly, I think this is a green flag because it means actually tackling problems in the relationship (including real red flags) vs letting them fester and get worse.

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      1 year ago

      You cannot have a healthy, long and deep relationship of any kind if you don’t make stuff work that causes problems.

      Sure, you can run away every time problems arise, but that won’t net you any “decent” relationships in life.

      I think a key element in problem-solving problems in relationships is constructive criticism and talking about stuff in a neutral or a positive way.
      Yelling accusations while hurting won’t do good.