• Cowbee [he/him]@lemmy.ml
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    4 months ago

    Might be a hot take, but Lemmy Culture is good, actually. It isn’t homogenous, instances have unique cultures that might fit your needs and interests better.

    I wouldn’t change that, federation and defederation does bring drama, but it also brings really cool micro communities.

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      the absolute best thing on Lemmy is seeing someone complain about an instance that your instance defederates from

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            Not a fan of the takes the average visitor from more right-wing instances brings, sometimes it’s nice to deliberately pick a smaller instance with like-minded people.

            Social media becomes less addicting and less debatebro-ey.

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              i don’t like seeing it either, but cocooning yourself into an echo chamber doesn’t help thing at all.

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                I disagree, actually. I never have productive conversations regarding Marxism, for example, with liberals. Opinions being diverse does not necessarily mean they add value to conversations.

                Still, I have multiple accounts of the same name, I use when I want to talk to different people.

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                  i never expect the conversations to be productive, especially with liberals; but i don’t find that the discourse forces me to re-evaluate my views and it usually strengthens them.

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                    Sure, and that’s fine. For me, it usually results in frustration and phone addiction, so it helps me not do it quite as much, even if I have a long way to go.

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      I like that it is more inclusive than the DUMBster fire that is reddit.

      While it is very left leaning, because the entire world is left leaning, other views so get presented and debated (and downvoted), but they are not filtered out and insta-permabanned. It is way more engaging.

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        other views so get presented and debated (and downvoted), but they are not filtered out and insta-permabanned. It is way more engaging.

        this is my favorite quality of the lemmyverse; you’re not required to follow the groupthink out of fear of being banned and the plethora of viewpoints guarantees that groupthink isn’t as powerful as it is on reddit or twitter.

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            you’ll be lucky to get thoughtful debate in this country; our discourse is devolved into looking for a chance to dunk on the other person to enrage them enough to quit. the trick to getting anything out of it is to keep your cool.