• EpeeGnome@lemm.eeEnglish
    2751·
    8 个月前

    or with parental consent.

    Eww, that line tells you all you need to know about this guy. And the fact that this is actually legal in some states is disturbing.

    • stinerman [Ohio]English
      147·
      8 个月前

      He prefers a woman who is “damaged” because he thinks she’ll put up with being treated like a broodmare.

      • KingJalopy @lemm.ee
        30·
        8 个月前

        As if he even needed to say that, the only people who would respond to this would be especially damaged lol.

      • Funderpants @lemmy.ca
        201·
        8 个月前

        Let’s not give him that much credit, a woman is acceptable but he’d prefer a child who is damaged, with parental consent of course.

        • irreticent@lemmy.world
          31·
          7 个月前

          I have a feeling he doesn’t really care that much about consent, parental or otherwise. I think that was just a dog whistle for “I like fucking kids” without actually incriminating himself.

  • Lemming421@lemmy.worldEnglish
    172·
    8 个月前

    53 and looking for someone “of age or with parental consent”?

    Excuse me while I go and vomit.

    • Chocrates@lemmy.world
      69·
      8 个月前

      Yeah, I’m getting divorced at 35 and matching with women younger than 30 freaks me out. This mf’r wants a 17yr old? Yuck.

        • odium@programming.dev
          12·
          8 个月前

          Wonder how young it can be by Texas laws, but also don’t want to look it up and be put on a watchlist.

          • fjordbasa@lemmy.worldEnglish
            181·
            8 个月前

            If you’re not trying to help someone get an abortion or gender-affirming care, you’re probably safe. Those are the real issues! (Sarcastic, if not clear, and referencing the absurd reporting websites some states have set up)

          • stinerman [Ohio]English
            13·
            8 个月前

            According to Wikipedia, Texas doesn’t have a “with parental consent” law. If he’s 53, she’s gotta be 17 or older. They wouldn’t be able to get married until she turned 18.

      • AFK BRB Chocolate@lemmy.worldEnglish
        25·
        8 个月前

        I got divorced in my late 20s, and started dating again around 30. A girl I had met who was 21 asked me why I hadn’t asked her out, and the truth was she seemed way out of my league - very attractive person, very bright. So I went out with her, and she was nice, but I just couldn’t do it because she seemed so young. Not immature, just young. And it was so strange going out with someone who hadn’t even seen the same TV shows as I watched growing up, which sounds superficial, but it was honestly weird.

        I just can’t imagine dating someone decades younger than me. An underage person with a 53-year-old is just gross.

        • shalafi@lemmy.worldEnglish
          103·
          8 个月前

          Feel ya. I was 50 and some young neighbors were hanging out one Saturday, 20-yo or so. I noticed a friend’s hands were absolutely perfect, beautiful hands. Slim, long, porcelain white.

          And it grossed me out. They looked like doll’s hands, a child’s hands. Eww.

          My wife, same age, doesn’t understand why I so love her hands. They have age, maturity, I love them.

          Anyways, this dude freaks me out.

          • Drivebyhaiku@lemmy.world
            8·
            7 个月前

            Valuing each other’s “mileage” is so wholesome and needs to be normalized. Too many of us are taught we have this tiny window of being pleasing to look at before the “imperfections” start getting toted up…and it isn’t true. I can’t imagine being with someone in their early 20’s. That’s still a kid in my eyes! They need to BE a kid and experience relationships with other kids where they are equals in figuring out everything together.

            My partner and I are about a year apart in age and we remember all our weird awkward growing up moments together where we struggled to figure things out and each one is a treasure. They if anything get just get more and more attractive with age.

      • Ashyr@sh.itjust.works
        9·
        8 个月前

        I genuinely don’t understand this thinking. The idea of partnering with someone who doesn’t share a similar life experience sounds difficult and frustrating.

        I get that they’re not looking to partner with anyone and that’s the point.

          • Maalus@lemmy.world
            33·
            7 个月前

            You can’t force a person into therapy for a few months and it “just work”. Mental health, especially habits and beliefs, aren’t some easy to solve problems “if only they went to therapy for a bit”. If they don’t want to change (which they won’t if they are forced into it) means it is just a waste of everyone’s time.

            • go $fsck yourself@lemmy.worldEnglish
              52·
              7 个月前

              Can you point to where I said "just work” and “if only they went to therapy for a bit”?

              I must be blind because I don’t see where I said either of those things.

              It’s clear you didn’t even bother to even look at either of the articles I posted before just saying whatever you think is correct.

              Stop spouting bad information because it’s what you want to believe.

        • Blisterexe@lemmy.zip
          2·
          7 个月前

          i mean, in terms of accounts, email is the hardest to change from, and you can use most any client with email accounts

      • abbadon420@lemm.ee
        2·
        7 个月前

        I feel offended. Dafuq is wrong with hotmail?! Imho, it’s pretty awesome that microsoft still supports it after all these years. Got mine when I was 10 and I plan om keeping it untill I die. It’s a better relic than a beany baby.

  • Lowlee Kun@feddit.de
    28·
    8 个月前

    Man, giving internet access to the unhinged might have been a bad idea but it IS very entertaining to say the least.

  • Kraiden@kbin.run
    23·
    8 个月前

    I’m real

    Such a perfect specimen of manliness surely can’t exist in our cold, imperfect reality.