I need the opposite. My emotions are flat as fuck.
Same, if figure it out, let me know
For me it’s trying to get to the bottom of the reason why I feel a certain way. If I manage to logic myself out of the initial heavy torrent of emotions I can usually talk myself down if I feel it’s destructive.
So just thinking about those emotions but not in a way that amplifies them. If I’m angry at someone I would try not to think more reasons why what that person did is wrong but more in the direction of why do I feel angry for them doing that.
If I manage to see my state in such a objective manner I’m able to just decide to stop feeling this way. Often I realise that feeling those emotions, even the negative ones, just feels good and even though I can stop I prefer not too. But at least it’s a choice.
Is your cucumber bitter? Throw it away. Are there briars in your path? Turn aside. That is enough. Do not go on and say “Why were things of this sort ever brought into this world?”
and if you can’t change it, why worry? especially after you’ve done your best
and also antidepressants and or maybe lithium. ask your psychiatrist about it
About 25mg of Prozac a day and a job that supports my mild drug habit.
Reviewing pros and cons of your actions helps
Distraction is the best coping method. I listen to audiobooks instead of trying to sleep and I fall asleep faster without the constant stream of internal anxious chatter
years of depression has a numbing effect 👍
Hold it inside until I can get home and take an hour long bath immediately after work or have a manic breakdown the moment I get through the door in front of my s/o
Drugs and alcohol. Numb the body, numb the mind, numb the soul.
I’m going with the definition of “best” meaning “most effective” in this case.
Drugs and alcohol are a loan. You have to eventually pay back what you’re getting - and with interest.
Please take it from someone who’s been there - stay away. Using substances to cope with mental health issues is a dangerous road that inevitably leads to one of three options - institutions, sobriety, or death. Only takes one hot shot to send you to space.
I agree. There are a lot of influential forces telling you to “drink your problems away.” Even my favorite show - It’s always Sunny, says “Force it down with brown.” But please understand the marketing money behind these messages are tremendous.
Drugs and alcohol push your brain chemistry towards illness. Therapy and medication help bring it back to normal.
Breathing exercises
Be exhausted constantly.
seriously, devote as little energy as possible to caring about shit. it works.
Olanzapine
Exercise
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After Newports, one supposes :-)
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Get older.
Get older.
Working on it.
Weird.
It sounds like a BS answer, but it’s true. My personal experience is that the older I’ve gotten, the less I’m affected by the world around me. My best guess is the experience of time can lend coping mechanisms, under the proper circumstances I’m sure.
It’s just not actionable. It’s not something you can do.
That’s a fair take. But I will say that we just grew a little older together, and I’ll take your point to heart when dealing with others.
I get the sentiment, but what is it rooted in? Extreme experiences giving you a new perspective making old anxieties feel like nothing. That’s just statistics. That’s saying that the longer you live, the more likely you are to experience those kinds of things.
I don’t know, I just live here.
It is something you will do though. So you can rest easy on that part. Sometimes the best course of action is to do nothing.
Oh yeah, for sure, my emotions have all gotten less. Less high, less low, I’ve just chilled out in every direction
To you and @Dr. Wesker , how old are we talking about? Roughly after how many decades this becomes something you notice- and does it keep building up?
I’m in my mid 30s and I can agree I don’t feel anywhere as intensely as I did ten years ago, but for me this is a bug, not a feature. So I’m really curious about how others have fared in this regard
